Have you abused your partner or ex-partner in any of the following ways...
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Hit, shoved, pulled hair, punched, kicked, grabbed, choked. |
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Threatened to harm your partner, her friends or family, punch walls or smash things. |
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Forcing sex, use sulks or punishments if she refuses sex, force her to watch any sexual acts. |
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Put her down, make her feel bad about herself, make her think she's crazy, humiliate her. |
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Control what she does, who she sees, what she reads and where she goes, limit or discourage outside involvement. |
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Encourage children to take sides, make her feel guity about the children, use child contact to harass her. |
If you want to stop abusing your partner, the Essex Change Programme can help you change…
Are you ready? (click here)
Essex Change is a community based Domestic Violence Intervention Programme for men who want to end their violent or abusive behaviour towards a partner or ex partner.
Our associated Women’s Service aims to increase the safety of women and children by offering support and safety planning.











